It is the mediums job to point out that when things are falling apart --life is kind of testing you as well as healing you. We think that the point is to pass the test or to overcome the problem, but the truth is that things don't really get solved. They come together and they fall apart. Then they come together again and fall apart again. It's just like that.
As mediums do the work of reminding you of Hope and the wheel of life, we take you on your journey of daily, weekly, monthly, and yearly challenges. The healing comes from letting there be room for all of this to happen: room for grief, for relief, for misery and for joy.
On our walk through life, your medium is there is render relief--to point our that this phase (pain, grief,or suffering) of life, will come to an end. That through manifestation you can enjoy any thing you wish to experience and further that with your positive attitude, in place you will overcome everything.